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Fitness Tips

How To Lose Fat And Build A Lean Physique

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My transformation from 2017-2025. In the photo on the left I had already lost 40 lbs.

Over the course of losing and keeping off over 145 lbs since 2016 I have learned quite a bit about what it takes to make fat loss not only possible, but also sustainable.  Next are the five things you need to do to lose fat and build a lean physique.

  1. Don’t rush.  Slow and steady consistent effort with your nutrition and regular activity wins every time.  
  2. Create a small to moderate calorie deficit.  Don’t slash your food intake to lose crazy amounts of weight fast.  Aim for about 1/2-1 pound of fat loss a week.
  3. Prioritize protein in every meal.  25-30g per meal with a total daily goal of 1g per lb of ideal bodyweight. 
  4. Move more often in your daily life.  Create a step goal of 8-10k steps and start hitting this target everyday. 
  5. Resistance Train.  Follow a high quality and progressive resistance training program so you can build lean muscle along the way.  

6. BELIEVE your efforts are worth it!  Keep going!

Sound basic and foundational? You bet it is. This is what actually works. No gimmicks, fads, or quick tricks. Put the basics on repeat. Let’s see what happens.


Remember that the process is slow. Very Slow.  Some weeks we can feel like no progress is happening at all. Start again fresh every day. It’s amazing how all the small things we do each day add up with time and consistency.  Keep Going!  

If you have thought about having me as your coach to support you along your own fitness journey using sustainable and realistic strategies check out the Online Fitness Coaching page on my website. With my 1 on 1 online fitness coaching service I take out the guess work and create customized activity and nutrition plans for your unique needs and goals while providing support, accountability and education for ongoing success. That way you can start taking action to get the epic and long lasting benefits of a sustainable fitness lifestyle.

See my client testimonials.

www.melaniewales-sustainableliving.com

Follow me on Instagram for more tips, free recipes, and full days of eating.

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Did you know I wrote 2 E Cookbooks? Find loads of easy and healthy recipes in my E Cookbooks perfect for meal prep and beyond.  Knowing how to prepare healthy meals at home is a game changer for your long term health and wellness. Plus save money by skipping expensive carry out or delivery one delicious bite at a time.

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Fitness Tips

Focus On This To Succeed In An Epic Fitness Transformation

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My transformation through the years. 2016-2025.

Over the course of losing and keeping off over 145 lbs since 2016 I have learned quite a bit about what it takes to make fat loss not only possible, but also sustainable.  Next are the things you need to stay focused on. Day in and day out… for years.

  1. Meet a daily step goal to ensure regular activity.
  2. Resistance train with a focus on progressive overload to build muscle and strength.
  3. Keep track of your total calories and prioritize protein and fruits or veggies with each meal to align your nutrition with your goals.
  4. Include some fun foods in moderation. 
  5. Do the above consistently. 
  6. Believe it is possible.
  7. Believe your efforts were worth it! 

Sound basic and foundational? You bet it is. This is what actually works. No gimmicks, fads, or quick tricks. Put the basics on repeat. Let’s see what happens.


Remember that the process is slow. Very Slow.  Some weeks we can feel like no progress is happening at all. Start again fresh every day. It’s amazing how all the small things we do each day add up with time and consistency.  Keep Going!  

If you have thought about having me as your coach to support you along your own fitness journey using sustainable and realistic strategies check out the Online Fitness Coaching page on my website. With my 1 on 1 online fitness coaching service I take out the guess work and create customized activity and nutrition plans for your unique needs and goals while providing support, accountability and education for ongoing success. That way you can start taking action to get the epic and long lasting benefits of a sustainable fitness lifestyle.

See my client testimonials.

www.melaniewales-sustainableliving.com

Follow me on Instagram for more tips, free recipes, and full days of eating.

www.instagram.com/melaniewales.sustainableliving

Did you know I wrote 2 E Cookbooks? Find loads of easy and healthy recipes in my E Cookbooks perfect for meal prep and beyond.  Knowing how to prepare healthy meals at home is a game changer for your long term health and wellness. Plus save money by skipping expensive carry out or delivery one delicious bite at a time.

Click below for details. 

https://melaniewales-sustainableliving.com/shop-cookbook/

Fitness Tips

What is something you could do MOVING FOWARD to MAKE IT EASIER?

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This is a question on my weekly email check in form for all my 1 on 1 online clients.

Next I share a couple responses from the real people I coach.  They demonstrate how the process of getting and sustaining incredible results is not a stagnant process.  Instead the journey is alive and ongoing.  

I won’t be able to work out at my normal times… due to family activities…so I am going to go to the gym in the middle of my workday.”

“Taking it one day at a time.  I’m excited to see what my body can do.”

“I will start referring back to my goals and reevaluate/ get more specific on what I want to accomplish and why….”

“I am going to put my phone in the other room….instead of doom scrolling.  I can do it!”

“I’m focusing on getting enough rest to recover effectively”

“I’m making chili for my whole fam for a celebratory event. I got the lean ground beef ready! Gonna fill up on the good stuff before we are inundated with desserts.”

Every day, every week we try to make it happen.  Not out of sheer will, but through mindfulness, creativity, and patience.  We reflect and consider. 

Is there is a way to make it easier? 

It’s not always possible, but we keep trying anyway.  

If you have thought about having me as your coach to support you along your own fitness journey using sustainable and realistic strategies check out the Online Fitness Coaching page on my website. With my 1 on 1 online fitness coaching service I take out the guess work and create customized activity and nutrition plans for your unique needs and goals while providing support, accountability and education for ongoing success. That way you can start taking action to get the epic and long lasting benefits of a sustainable fitness lifestyle.

See my client testimonials.

www.melaniewales-sustainableliving.com

Follow me on Instagram for more tips, free recipes, and full days of eating.

www.instagram.com/melaniewales.sustainableliving

Did you know I wrote 2 E Cookbooks? Find loads of easy and healthy recipes in my E Cookbooks perfect for meal prep and beyond.  Knowing how to prepare healthy meals at home is a game changer for your long term health and wellness. Plus save money by skipping expensive carry out or delivery one delicious bite at a time.

Click below for details. 

https://melaniewales-sustainableliving.com/shop-cookbook/

Fitness Tips

Never Quit: The Only Way To Guarantee No Results Is To Give Up

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Now 8 years into my journey I get a lot of comments such as “Well, it’s easier for you because_____.  It’s harder for me because_____. “

I wouldn’t call the efforts required over 4 years to lose 145lbs and another 4 years of maintaining and leveling up my body composition.… easy.  But that’s beside the point.  No one wins in the competition of who’s had it the hardest.  

We all have our own unique set of circumstances and challenges that we navigate while prioritizing our heath and well being.   

The great thing about living a healthy life with healthy habits and routines is that it works for everyone.  

Young and old.  

Underweight and overweight.  

Weak and injured.  

Through all stages of life and through all manner of struggles, we all benefit from taking care of ourselves with a healthy lifestyle.

It is a huge step to let go of the narrative of old self limiting beliefs and to start putting our energy in the right places.

I promise that each of our own challenges and life histories do not need to be a permanent crutch.  We need to let go of comparison and allow all the things we have uniquely survived remind us of how awesome and capable and resilient we are.   

When new purpose outweighs old excuses results have no choice but to follow.

The only way to guarantee no results is to give up. 

Never Quit!

If you have thought about having me as your coach to support you along your own fitness journey check out the Online Fitness Coaching page on my website for more info and how to inquire about my online fitness coaching service. Receive customized activity and nutrition plans, monthly virtual calls, and weekly email check in’s.

See my client testimonials.

www.melaniewales-sustainableliving.com

Follow me on Instagram for more tips, free recipes, and full days of eating.

www.instagram.com/melaniewales.sustainableliving

Fitness Tips

Mindset Tips: How To Stay On Track Even When It Gets Hard

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“What can I do today that adds value to me tomorrow.”

It’s easy to succumb to short term convenience and comforts when we are tired, hungry, stressed or overwhelmed.  Especially at the end of a long day or week.  

Most of us do not deviate from our action plan when things are easy.  We veer off track when things get hard, inconvenient, or require more effort than we expect.  

When this inevitably happens.  Shift your mindset and REMEMBER that your long term goals are valuable and hold a greater purpose than how you feel in this fleeting moment.  

Stay true to what you know you should do.  Keep the promises you made to yourself.  Your tomorrow self will thank you that you persevered today.   

Every week I have the opportunity to hear how my 1 on 1 clients stay consistent to their long term goals despite their circumstances and about the rewards and benefits they see because of their previous consistency.

We call these Non Scale Victories and I have all my clients share at least one with me each check in.    

Next are a few non scale victories that were shared with me recently.

  1. Eating well and nailing their full body resistance workouts while on full time kid duty and a husband out of town.  This includes a very active, nap skipping toddler!
  2. Keeping to their nutritional goals despite the stress of moving halfway around the world, starting a new job, finding a car, and a new home.  
  3. Getting to play in the snow and keep up with their kid for sled riding.
  4. Having someone comment about how buff their arms are now.
  5. Seeing noticeable quad growth while waist measurements stay the same.  Lean Gains!

We all lead full and busy lives.  

It’s easy to get lost in the chaos of the moment.

Hold strong.

We are all more capable and resilient than we realize.

On your own fitness journey pay attention to your many non scale victories.

Victories such as:

  • Increased strength, endurance and mobility
  • Increased self confidence and self efficacy 
  • Less anxiety around food
  • Better Sleep
  • More ability to cope with negative stressors and less overall stress 
  • More energy for daily tasks
  • Less joint and muscle aches or pains  

Allow these victories to help you remember that making your fitness a priority is always worth it. 

If you have thought about having me as your coach to support you along your own fitness journey check out the Online Fitness Coaching page on my website for more info and how to inquire about my online fitness coaching service. Receive customized activity and nutrition plans, monthly virtual calls, and weekly email check in’s. 

www.melaniewales-sustainableliving.com

Follow me on Instagram for more tips, free recipes, and full days of eating.

www.instagram.com/melaniewales.sustainableliving