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Fitness Tips

How To Lose Fat And Build A Lean Physique

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My transformation from 2017-2025. In the photo on the left I had already lost 40 lbs.

Over the course of losing and keeping off over 145 lbs since 2016 I have learned quite a bit about what it takes to make fat loss not only possible, but also sustainable.  Next are the five things you need to do to lose fat and build a lean physique.

  1. Don’t rush.  Slow and steady consistent effort with your nutrition and regular activity wins every time.  
  2. Create a small to moderate calorie deficit.  Don’t slash your food intake to lose crazy amounts of weight fast.  Aim for about 1/2-1 pound of fat loss a week.
  3. Prioritize protein in every meal.  25-30g per meal with a total daily goal of 1g per lb of ideal bodyweight. 
  4. Move more often in your daily life.  Create a step goal of 8-10k steps and start hitting this target everyday. 
  5. Resistance Train.  Follow a high quality and progressive resistance training program so you can build lean muscle along the way.  

6. BELIEVE your efforts are worth it!  Keep going!

Sound basic and foundational? You bet it is. This is what actually works. No gimmicks, fads, or quick tricks. Put the basics on repeat. Let’s see what happens.


Remember that the process is slow. Very Slow.  Some weeks we can feel like no progress is happening at all. Start again fresh every day. It’s amazing how all the small things we do each day add up with time and consistency.  Keep Going!  

If you have thought about having me as your coach to support you along your own fitness journey using sustainable and realistic strategies check out the Online Fitness Coaching page on my website. With my 1 on 1 online fitness coaching service I take out the guess work and create customized activity and nutrition plans for your unique needs and goals while providing support, accountability and education for ongoing success. That way you can start taking action to get the epic and long lasting benefits of a sustainable fitness lifestyle.

See my client testimonials.

www.melaniewales-sustainableliving.com

Follow me on Instagram for more tips, free recipes, and full days of eating.

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Did you know I wrote 2 E Cookbooks? Find loads of easy and healthy recipes in my E Cookbooks perfect for meal prep and beyond.  Knowing how to prepare healthy meals at home is a game changer for your long term health and wellness. Plus save money by skipping expensive carry out or delivery one delicious bite at a time.

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Fitness Tips

Focus On This To Succeed In An Epic Fitness Transformation

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My transformation through the years. 2016-2025.

Over the course of losing and keeping off over 145 lbs since 2016 I have learned quite a bit about what it takes to make fat loss not only possible, but also sustainable.  Next are the things you need to stay focused on. Day in and day out… for years.

  1. Meet a daily step goal to ensure regular activity.
  2. Resistance train with a focus on progressive overload to build muscle and strength.
  3. Keep track of your total calories and prioritize protein and fruits or veggies with each meal to align your nutrition with your goals.
  4. Include some fun foods in moderation. 
  5. Do the above consistently. 
  6. Believe it is possible.
  7. Believe your efforts were worth it! 

Sound basic and foundational? You bet it is. This is what actually works. No gimmicks, fads, or quick tricks. Put the basics on repeat. Let’s see what happens.


Remember that the process is slow. Very Slow.  Some weeks we can feel like no progress is happening at all. Start again fresh every day. It’s amazing how all the small things we do each day add up with time and consistency.  Keep Going!  

If you have thought about having me as your coach to support you along your own fitness journey using sustainable and realistic strategies check out the Online Fitness Coaching page on my website. With my 1 on 1 online fitness coaching service I take out the guess work and create customized activity and nutrition plans for your unique needs and goals while providing support, accountability and education for ongoing success. That way you can start taking action to get the epic and long lasting benefits of a sustainable fitness lifestyle.

See my client testimonials.

www.melaniewales-sustainableliving.com

Follow me on Instagram for more tips, free recipes, and full days of eating.

www.instagram.com/melaniewales.sustainableliving

Did you know I wrote 2 E Cookbooks? Find loads of easy and healthy recipes in my E Cookbooks perfect for meal prep and beyond.  Knowing how to prepare healthy meals at home is a game changer for your long term health and wellness. Plus save money by skipping expensive carry out or delivery one delicious bite at a time.

Click below for details. 

https://melaniewales-sustainableliving.com/shop-cookbook/

Fitness Tips

What is something you could do MOVING FOWARD to MAKE IT EASIER?

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This is a question on my weekly email check in form for all my 1 on 1 online clients.

Next I share a couple responses from the real people I coach.  They demonstrate how the process of getting and sustaining incredible results is not a stagnant process.  Instead the journey is alive and ongoing.  

I won’t be able to work out at my normal times… due to family activities…so I am going to go to the gym in the middle of my workday.”

“Taking it one day at a time.  I’m excited to see what my body can do.”

“I will start referring back to my goals and reevaluate/ get more specific on what I want to accomplish and why….”

“I am going to put my phone in the other room….instead of doom scrolling.  I can do it!”

“I’m focusing on getting enough rest to recover effectively”

“I’m making chili for my whole fam for a celebratory event. I got the lean ground beef ready! Gonna fill up on the good stuff before we are inundated with desserts.”

Every day, every week we try to make it happen.  Not out of sheer will, but through mindfulness, creativity, and patience.  We reflect and consider. 

Is there is a way to make it easier? 

It’s not always possible, but we keep trying anyway.  

If you have thought about having me as your coach to support you along your own fitness journey using sustainable and realistic strategies check out the Online Fitness Coaching page on my website. With my 1 on 1 online fitness coaching service I take out the guess work and create customized activity and nutrition plans for your unique needs and goals while providing support, accountability and education for ongoing success. That way you can start taking action to get the epic and long lasting benefits of a sustainable fitness lifestyle.

See my client testimonials.

www.melaniewales-sustainableliving.com

Follow me on Instagram for more tips, free recipes, and full days of eating.

www.instagram.com/melaniewales.sustainableliving

Did you know I wrote 2 E Cookbooks? Find loads of easy and healthy recipes in my E Cookbooks perfect for meal prep and beyond.  Knowing how to prepare healthy meals at home is a game changer for your long term health and wellness. Plus save money by skipping expensive carry out or delivery one delicious bite at a time.

Click below for details. 

https://melaniewales-sustainableliving.com/shop-cookbook/

Fitness Tips

Never Quit: The Only Way To Guarantee No Results Is To Give Up

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Now 8 years into my journey I get a lot of comments such as “Well, it’s easier for you because_____.  It’s harder for me because_____. “

I wouldn’t call the efforts required over 4 years to lose 145lbs and another 4 years of maintaining and leveling up my body composition.… easy.  But that’s beside the point.  No one wins in the competition of who’s had it the hardest.  

We all have our own unique set of circumstances and challenges that we navigate while prioritizing our heath and well being.   

The great thing about living a healthy life with healthy habits and routines is that it works for everyone.  

Young and old.  

Underweight and overweight.  

Weak and injured.  

Through all stages of life and through all manner of struggles, we all benefit from taking care of ourselves with a healthy lifestyle.

It is a huge step to let go of the narrative of old self limiting beliefs and to start putting our energy in the right places.

I promise that each of our own challenges and life histories do not need to be a permanent crutch.  We need to let go of comparison and allow all the things we have uniquely survived remind us of how awesome and capable and resilient we are.   

When new purpose outweighs old excuses results have no choice but to follow.

The only way to guarantee no results is to give up. 

Never Quit!

If you have thought about having me as your coach to support you along your own fitness journey check out the Online Fitness Coaching page on my website for more info and how to inquire about my online fitness coaching service. Receive customized activity and nutrition plans, monthly virtual calls, and weekly email check in’s.

See my client testimonials.

www.melaniewales-sustainableliving.com

Follow me on Instagram for more tips, free recipes, and full days of eating.

www.instagram.com/melaniewales.sustainableliving

Fitness Tips

Find Your Turning Point Now

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Earlier in my life I attempted to lose weight more times than I can count. 

During an attempt I took up swimming.  I had recently hurt my knee after a fall down my back garden steps.  Swimming was a good fit because it allowed for movement while not aggravating my knee injury.  

I started feeling better.  I started feeling proud of myself.  

Then I shared with someone how I’d taken up swimming and how I was focusing on losing weight again.  This individual promptly told me that swimming was not going to help me lose weight.  Great that it was helping me feel better, but not to get my hopes up for weight loss.

This conversation was devastating.  I lost my drive to go swimming.  I allowed it to set me back on my fitness journey for many years to follow. 

Recently I’ve been sharing simple ways you can start to incorporate healthier habits into your daily routine.  This is because getting started with something and then to BUILD off of that initial momentum is crucial. 

We all have to start somewhere. We also need to believe ALL our efforts are worth it.  Because they are.

Could our efforts be optimized and maximized?  Of course!  That’s what I do as a coach for my clients.  I help my clients optimize their time and efforts so they can achieve amazing and long term results.  

But, building a base of healthy habits through small daily actions and believing it’s worth it to do so creates both momentum and confidence to remain consistent. 

Consistency is key for progress.

My turning point came after having my daughter.  With an infant to care for I had to find ways to incorporate my health goals into my busy days.  I had to get creative to make it work.  I also started to believe in my efforts again no matter how small they were.

From 2016-2017, in less than ideal conditions, I managed to lose 40 lbs during my first year postpartum. 

The momentum I created then still carries me through today.  Sure, by deepening my education and experience I have learned how to optimize and maximize my efforts to take my results and that of my clients to the next level.  

But never underestimate the power of ALL of your efforts towards a healthier version of you.  Don’t be discouraged.  Keep going.  You’ve got this!

If you have thought about having me as your coach to support you along your own fitness journey check out the Online Fitness Coaching page on my website for more info and how to inquire about my online fitness coaching service. Receive customized activity and nutrition plans, monthly virtual calls, and weekly email check in’s.

See my client testimonials.

www.melaniewales-sustainableliving.com

Follow me on Instagram for more tips, free recipes, and full days of eating.

www.instagram.com/melaniewales.sustainableliving

Fitness Tips

Secrets To Losing Weight and Keeping It Off For Good

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8 years between these pictures.  You want to know the secrets to losing weight and keeping it off for good?  

Well… there are no secrets.

No magic diet, or pill you can take to make the body fat melt off.  

It takes consistent WORK.  It takes changing bad habits for good.  

It takes realizing habits you thought were good really aren’t if you are not seeing results.  

It takes prioritizing your long term health over your short term wants every single day.  

It takes falling in love with the process.  

It takes a radical mindset shift, determination, and good information to help you along the way.  

3 helpful tips to get you going on your Sustainable Living fitness journey.

  1. Be Patient. Sustainable results are slow going.  If the process was quick and easy we would all be walking around in our dream bodies.  Losing 2-4 pounds a month is amazing progress!  
  2. Be Realistic. Set daily goals that you can actually achieve.  If you haven’t exercised in months, don’t expect to hit it hard from the start, training 6 days a week and an hour everyday.  This will burn you out.  Daily walks and a couple 30 minute full body workouts per week are a great start. 
  3. Celebrate your daily wins!  Big and small.  If you make a mistake or fall off track, that’s okay.  Learning how to lose weight and keep it off is a skill.  It takes practice.  Don’t beat yourself up.  Be kind and keep going NOW.

You are only one good habit away from being back on track. 

Drink a glass of water, take a 10 minute walk, or enjoy 3 deep slow breaths.  Cool.  Now you are back on track!!  Make those small efforts add up so you can lose weight AND keep it off for good!

If you have thought about having me as your coach to support you along your own fitness journey check out the Online Fitness Coaching page on my website for more info and how to inquire about my online fitness coaching service. Receive customized activity and nutrition plans, monthly virtual calls, and weekly email check in’s.

See my client testimonials.

www.melaniewales-sustainableliving.com

Follow me on Instagram for more tips, free recipes, and full days of eating.

www.instagram.com/melaniewales.sustainableliving

Fitness Tips

How To Get Back On Track Now

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How to get back on track now if you miss a workout, not meet your step goal, or deviate from your nutritional goals by under or over eating.

Here are the best next steps to get back on track.

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Reflect: Why did it happen?

Learn: What circumstances preceded the events that led to it?

Plan: Is there a way to make it easier for you to stick to your goals in the future?

Keep Going: Consistency not perfection. It’s what you do most of the time that matters.

Don’t be discouraged if you fall off track. Everyone does. The only way to discover your potential is if you keep going.

Remember, a fitness journey lasts a lifetime.

Reflect- Learn- Plan- Keep Going

You’ve got this!

Use these steps to help you reach your fitness goals and to help you maintain your hard earned results long term.

If you have thought about having me as your coach to support you along your own fitness journey check out the Online Fitness Coaching page on my website for more info and how to inquire about my online fitness coaching service. Receive customized activity and nutrition plans, monthly virtual calls, and weekly email check in’s.

www.melaniewales-sustainableliving.com

Follow me on Instagram for more tips, free recipes, and full days of eating.

www.instagram.com/melaniewales.sustainableliving