Fitness Tips

How To Lose Fat And Build A Lean Physique

My transformation from 2017-2025. In the photo on the left I had already lost 40 lbs.

Over the course of losing and keeping off over 145 lbs since 2016 I have learned quite a bit about what it takes to make fat loss not only possible, but also sustainable.  Next are the five things you need to do to lose fat and build a lean physique.

  1. Don’t rush.  Slow and steady consistent effort with your nutrition and regular activity wins every time.  
  2. Create a small to moderate calorie deficit.  Don’t slash your food intake to lose crazy amounts of weight fast.  Aim for about 1/2-1 pound of fat loss a week.
  3. Prioritize protein in every meal.  25-30g per meal with a total daily goal of 1g per lb of ideal bodyweight. 
  4. Move more often in your daily life.  Create a step goal of 8-10k steps and start hitting this target everyday. 
  5. Resistance Train.  Follow a high quality and progressive resistance training program so you can build lean muscle along the way.  

6. BELIEVE your efforts are worth it!  Keep going!

Sound basic and foundational? You bet it is. This is what actually works. No gimmicks, fads, or quick tricks. Put the basics on repeat. Let’s see what happens.


Remember that the process is slow. Very Slow.  Some weeks we can feel like no progress is happening at all. Start again fresh every day. It’s amazing how all the small things we do each day add up with time and consistency.  Keep Going!  

If you have thought about having me as your coach to support you along your own fitness journey using sustainable and realistic strategies check out the Online Fitness Coaching page on my website. With my 1 on 1 online fitness coaching service I take out the guess work and create customized activity and nutrition plans for your unique needs and goals while providing support, accountability and education for ongoing success. That way you can start taking action to get the epic and long lasting benefits of a sustainable fitness lifestyle.

See my client testimonials.

www.melaniewales-sustainableliving.com

Follow me on Instagram for more tips, free recipes, and full days of eating.

www.instagram.com/melaniewales.sustainableliving

Did you know I wrote 2 E Cookbooks? Find loads of easy and healthy recipes in my E Cookbooks perfect for meal prep and beyond.  Knowing how to prepare healthy meals at home is a game changer for your long term health and wellness. Plus save money by skipping expensive carry out or delivery one delicious bite at a time.

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Focus On This To Succeed In An Epic Fitness Transformation

My transformation through the years. 2016-2025.

Over the course of losing and keeping off over 145 lbs since 2016 I have learned quite a bit about what it takes to make fat loss not only possible, but also sustainable.  Next are the things you need to stay focused on. Day in and day out… for years.

  1. Meet a daily step goal to ensure regular activity.
  2. Resistance train with a focus on progressive overload to build muscle and strength.
  3. Keep track of your total calories and prioritize protein and fruits or veggies with each meal to align your nutrition with your goals.
  4. Include some fun foods in moderation. 
  5. Do the above consistently. 
  6. Believe it is possible.
  7. Believe your efforts were worth it! 

Sound basic and foundational? You bet it is. This is what actually works. No gimmicks, fads, or quick tricks. Put the basics on repeat. Let’s see what happens.


Remember that the process is slow. Very Slow.  Some weeks we can feel like no progress is happening at all. Start again fresh every day. It’s amazing how all the small things we do each day add up with time and consistency.  Keep Going!  

If you have thought about having me as your coach to support you along your own fitness journey using sustainable and realistic strategies check out the Online Fitness Coaching page on my website. With my 1 on 1 online fitness coaching service I take out the guess work and create customized activity and nutrition plans for your unique needs and goals while providing support, accountability and education for ongoing success. That way you can start taking action to get the epic and long lasting benefits of a sustainable fitness lifestyle.

See my client testimonials.

www.melaniewales-sustainableliving.com

Follow me on Instagram for more tips, free recipes, and full days of eating.

www.instagram.com/melaniewales.sustainableliving

Did you know I wrote 2 E Cookbooks? Find loads of easy and healthy recipes in my E Cookbooks perfect for meal prep and beyond.  Knowing how to prepare healthy meals at home is a game changer for your long term health and wellness. Plus save money by skipping expensive carry out or delivery one delicious bite at a time.

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https://melaniewales-sustainableliving.com/shop-cookbook/

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What is something you could do MOVING FOWARD to MAKE IT EASIER?

This is a question on my weekly email check in form for all my 1 on 1 online clients.

Next I share a couple responses from the real people I coach.  They demonstrate how the process of getting and sustaining incredible results is not a stagnant process.  Instead the journey is alive and ongoing.  

I won’t be able to work out at my normal times… due to family activities…so I am going to go to the gym in the middle of my workday.”

“Taking it one day at a time.  I’m excited to see what my body can do.”

“I will start referring back to my goals and reevaluate/ get more specific on what I want to accomplish and why….”

“I am going to put my phone in the other room….instead of doom scrolling.  I can do it!”

“I’m focusing on getting enough rest to recover effectively”

“I’m making chili for my whole fam for a celebratory event. I got the lean ground beef ready! Gonna fill up on the good stuff before we are inundated with desserts.”

Every day, every week we try to make it happen.  Not out of sheer will, but through mindfulness, creativity, and patience.  We reflect and consider

Is there is a way to make it easier? 

It’s not always possible, but we keep trying anyway.  

If you have thought about having me as your coach to support you along your own fitness journey using sustainable and realistic strategies check out the Online Fitness Coaching page on my website. With my 1 on 1 online fitness coaching service I take out the guess work and create customized activity and nutrition plans for your unique needs and goals while providing support, accountability and education for ongoing success. That way you can start taking action to get the epic and long lasting benefits of a sustainable fitness lifestyle.

See my client testimonials.

www.melaniewales-sustainableliving.com

Follow me on Instagram for more tips, free recipes, and full days of eating.

www.instagram.com/melaniewales.sustainableliving

Did you know I wrote 2 E Cookbooks? Find loads of easy and healthy recipes in my E Cookbooks perfect for meal prep and beyond.  Knowing how to prepare healthy meals at home is a game changer for your long term health and wellness. Plus save money by skipping expensive carry out or delivery one delicious bite at a time.

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https://melaniewales-sustainableliving.com/shop-cookbook/

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The Foundational Five: Daily Actions For Sustainable Results

For amazing and long term sustainable results, put your focus on the daily actions I call The Foundational Five.  

The Foundational Five 

  • Eat Well
  • Move Often
  • Stay Hydrated
  • Prioritize Sleep
  • Reduce Stress

    With a focus on these basics, plus time and patience, results will come!  Results  not only in your body, but in your mind and overall wellness too.  

    Nail the Basics.  Repeat.  

    Sure there are nuances and better plans and protocols than others to optimize each foundational action to ensure results for individuals.  However, without The Foundational Five as a base for your daily healthy habits it will be so much harder to get and maintain your results.  

    You’d be surprised as a coach when a new client wants to know the quick trick, best supplement, best specific exercise, etc… and they are barely moving throughout the day, endlessly yo-yo dieting, barely hydrating or sleeping and/or stressed beyond belief…. And wondering why they keep failing to get and sustain their results. 

    Nail the Basics.  Repeat. 

    If you have thought about having me as your coach to support you along your own fitness journey using sustainable and realistic strategies check out the Online Fitness Coaching page on my website. With my 1 on 1 online fitness coaching service I take out the guess work and create customized activity and nutrition plans for your unique needs and goals while providing support, accountability and education for ongoing success. That way you can start taking action to get the epic and long lasting benefits of a sustainable fitness lifestyle.

    See my client testimonials.

    www.melaniewales-sustainableliving.com

    Follow me on Instagram for more tips, free recipes, and full days of eating.

    www.instagram.com/melaniewales.sustainableliving

    Did you know I wrote 2 E Cookbooks? Find loads of easy and healthy recipes in my E Cookbooks perfect for meal prep and beyond.  Knowing how to prepare healthy meals at home is a game changer for your long term health and wellness. Plus save money by skipping expensive carry out or delivery one delicious bite at a time.

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    https://melaniewales-sustainableliving.com/shop-cookbook/

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    How To Get More Steps Everyday Without A Treadmill

    When it comes to making any fitness or activity goal happen day in and day out  without fail it’s imperative to be open and creativeIf we think the only way to reach a step goal is time on a treadmill, think again.

    What happens if you can’t get to the gym?  Don’t own a treadmill? 

    Do these obstacles mean you need to skip getting in your daily steps? 

     Of course not.  You have choices.  

    Next are a few creative ways to increase your daily step count without access to a treadmill.

    1. Walk outside.  Personally I dress for the weather rain, snow, or shine and make it happen.  Daily outdoor light is a must and why not combine the time with a walk.  Enjoy a podcast, talk to a friend on the phone, or meet up with someone and make the time enjoyable.  My daughter is my step buddy.  We love our walks and talks together. 
    2. Walk inside.  Pace around the house.  Take more laps through the isles in a big box store.  Mall walk.  Take the stairs.  When tidying up at home take several trips instead of one and rack up a few more.  Every extra bit of activity counts. 
    3. Walk in place.  This is my secret weapon and I’ve done it for years and years.  This has been the way I make sure to never miss my daily step goal. I walk in place while watching a show, studying, reading, talking on the phone, and even in between sets during my workouts.  Yes, at the end of a long day I have been known to walk in place to ensure I have those last few steps before diving head first into bed.  Lol!

    Make realistic goals, commit, be creative, and then make them happen. 

    You’ve got this!

    My own annual daily step average over the last 6 years!

    If I can make it happen day in and day out, so can you!

    If you have thought about having me as your coach to support you along your own fitness journey check out the Online Fitness Coaching page on my website for more info and how to inquire about my online fitness coaching service. Receive customized activity and nutrition plans, monthly virtual calls, and weekly email check in’s.

    http://melaniewales-sustainableliving.com/online-fitness-coaching/

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    Jump Start Your Fitness Lifestyle With 3 Easy Habits

    When we start to prioritize cultivating healthier habits it’s easy to fall into the trap of wanting to do all the things, all at once, and to expect immediate results… only to burn out quickly.

    This approach is not sustainable.  What if this time you prioritized becoming consistent with a few basic healthy habits first?  

    Next are 3 easy habits you can start today to jump start your sustainable fitness lifestyle.

    1. Create a daily step goal and make it happen everyday.  8-10k is a great goal for long term health.  It doesn’t need to happen all at once.  It’s actually better to include light movement and walking throughout the day. 
    2. Make your first meal of the day (breakfast) contain at least 30g of high quality protein.  Starting with a high protein breakfast helps you to feel fuller and more satiated for longer. This means you are less likely to overeat later.  Great easy breakfast meal protein sources include whey protein, greek yogurt and eggs/egg whites.  
    3. Remove trigger foods and ultra processed convenience foods from sight. Think chips, ice cream, candy, cookies, etc…either don’t buy these items in the first place or stick them in a cupboard so it’s not the first or even second thing you see when you walk into your kitchen. Put the food you know and should eat front and center.  Hide treats and place a bowl of fresh fruit on the counter, plus keep veggies, grilled chicken, and greek yogurt ready to eat (and staring you in the face when you open the fridge) to make it a lot easier to make better food choices consistently.

    Make realistic goals, commit, and then make them happen.  You’ve got this!

    If you have thought about having me as your coach to support you along your own fitness journey using sustainable and realistic strategies check out the Online Fitness Coaching page on my website. With my 1 on 1 online fitness coaching service I take out the guess work and create customized activity and nutrition plans for your unique needs and goals while providing support, accountability and education for ongoing success. That way you can start taking action to get the epic and long lasting benefits of a sustainable fitness lifestyle.

    See my client testimonials.

    www.melaniewales-sustainableliving.com

    Follow me on Instagram for more tips, free recipes, and full days of eating.

    www.instagram.com/melaniewales.sustainableliving

    Did you know I wrote 2 E Cookbooks? Find loads of easy and healthy recipes in my E Cookbooks perfect for meal prep and beyond.  Knowing how to prepare healthy meals at home is a game changer for your long term health and wellness. Plus save money by skipping expensive carry out or delivery one delicious bite at a time.

    Click below for details. 

    https://melaniewales-sustainableliving.com/shop-cookbook/

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    How Turning My Focus To Building Muscle Changed Everything

    When I was a teen and in my 20’s I lost and gained weight more times than I can count.  Each time I repeated the cycle I regained even more weight.  I felt hopeless and broken as I tried to do what I thought worked.  Restrictive diets and lots of cardio.  Always with the focus on weight loss. 

    What changed?  I had to switch the paradigm in my mind and habits that had me focused on weight loss.  Instead I had to focus my mind and habits on BUILDING MUSCLE. 

    Eating for muscle, training for muscle, sleeping for muscle, hydrating for muscle, reducing stress and recovering for muscle. 

    When I focused on muscle.👉 I lost fat, built strength, increased my endurance and drastically improved my overall health markers: blood pressure, cholesterol, glucose management, and triglycerides. 

    To go on an empowering fitness journey I suggest this. Rather than focusing on losing weight, adjust your perspective and start focusing on building muscle.

    The habits and behaviors needed to build healthy skeletal muscle will yield incredible results not only physique development but in overall health including:

    1. Better Blood Sugar Regulation
    2. Improved Hunger Management 
    3. Increased Mobility
    4. Stronger Bones
    5. And last but not least, Increased Survivability Against Nearly Every Disease!

    It does not mean that the process is easy and will happen without effort. 

    But those efforts, WORTH IT! 

    If you have thought about having me as your coach to support you along your own fitness journey to lose fat, build muscle, and get stronger check out the Online Fitness Coaching page on my website. With my 1 on 1 online fitness coaching service I take out the guess work and create customized activity and nutrition plans for your unique needs and goals while providing support, accountability and education for ongoing success. That way you can start taking action to get the epic and long lasting benefits of improved muscle health.

    See my client testimonials.

    www.melaniewales-sustainableliving.com

    Follow me on Instagram for more tips, free recipes, and full days of eating.

    www.instagram.com/melaniewales.sustainableliving

    Find loads of high protein and lean muscle building recipes in my E Cookbooks perfect for meal prep and beyond.  Build muscle and lose fat for your long term health one delicious bite at a time.

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    How To Deal With Extra Holiday Treats And Tasty Leftovers

    Here is your mindful action plan on how to deal with extra holiday treats and tasty leftovers so that you can live fitter and healthier this holiday season.

    1. Make Less: avoid having left overs 
    2. Swap In Healthier Recipes:  make lower calorie options 
    3. Portion and Freeze: enjoy smaller portions later 
    4. Garnish: crumble a small amount on top to add flavor
    5. Fold In: add a small amount in to add flavor

    Keep it simple and go into 2025 stronger and fitter than ever!  

    For more nutrition tips, meal ideas, over 100 macro friendly recipes perfect for meal prep and beyond, check out my E Cookbooks. Reach your fitness goals with my easy, family friendly, and delicious recipes!  Find high protein versions of your favorite holiday treats like brownies, cookies, and cheesecakes to name a few.

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    How To Structure A Festive Holiday Meal Without Tracking

    Did you know that most people do not gain excess weight and body fat linearly throughout the year?  Instead, it actually happens in the 2 months between Halloween and New Years. More often than not It’s also not lost in the subsequent months.  This means the scale can go up 5-10 lbs each and every year…

    This does not need to happen to you!  Along with an overall consistent eating pattern, structure your occasional festive holiday meals the following way to reduce or completely eliminate unwanted fat gain. 

    Don’t wait to get “back on track” in the New Year.  Start now and go into 2025 your strongest and fittest yet!

    1. Start with salad loaded with fresh veggies and a light dressing. Skip including cheese/nuts/avocado/heavy dressings.  Hydrate with seltzer/sparkling water.  
    2. Fill a single entree plate. Can include- 1 piece of a bread or roll, 2-3 sides (each the size of a handful) and plenty of the leanest protein on offer.  Season with salt/pepper/hot sauce/ and a light amount of gravy per preference.  Pair with a glass of wine/ diet soda/ or other favorite low or zero calorie beverage.  
    3. Choose 1 portion or 2-3 two bite size portions of your most loved dessert(s).  Pair with fresh berries and greek non fat yogurt instead of whipped cream or ice cream.  (My protein creme recipe found in Volume 2 of my E Cookbook works great to go with any traditional dessert.) Pair with a hot beverage such as coffee, tea, or sugar free/fat free hot chocolate.  

    Eat slowly, Savor each bite, and Enjoy your time with Friends and Family!  

    You’ve got this!  

    For more nutrition tips, meal ideas, over 100 macro friendly recipes perfect for meal prep and beyond, check out my E Cookbooks. Reach your fitness goals with my easy, family friendly, and delicious recipes!  Find high protein versions of your favorite holiday treats like brownies, cookies, and cheesecakes to name a few.

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    https://melaniewales-sustainableliving.com/shop-cookbook/

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    The Best Holiday Fitness Gifts

    This season give your loved ones something that will help them crush their fitness goals.

    Discover this carefully curated list of my 10 favorite holiday fitness gifts. These amazing products and services are the ones that I have vetted, trust, personally use, and find helpful.

    1. Commit 30 Planner for organizing and scheduling work and life’s to do’s and for creating and tracking goals
    2. Forever Strong by Dr. Gabrielle Lyon for the why’s and how’s to life long health and strength
    3. Carbon Diet Coach App for nutrition tracking and guidance
    4. Coach Mark Carroll for Building the Bikini Body Guides and high quality resistance training programing
    5. Buff Bunny for gym and lifestyle clothing
    6. BC Strength for home fitness equipment
    7. Versa Gripps for when your legs are strong but the limiting factor is your grip
    8. Outwork Nutrition for Pre workout and Build Whey Protein Powder. Use my coupon code “MELANIE10” for 10% off your first order. Use my Outwork Nutrition affiliate link to shop. https://outworknutrition.com/?ref=dkNH36V5xmUfmm
    9. Lakanto for zero calorie sweeteners to make all your healthy treats extra amazing
    10. Fitbit Inspire Watch and Activity Tracker for tracking steps, workouts, and monitoring health metrics like resting heart rate

    On the personal side, I worked for years to develop, create, and write E Cookbooks dedicated to macro friendly meal prep. They contain over 100 recipes, meal ideas, and tips to help you tackle one of the hardest aspects of a fitness journey: eating well day in and day out for years. Check them out via the link below. They are worth it!

    https://melaniewales-sustainableliving.com/shop-cookbook/

    Find all the recipes I have personally created and used consistently for years to lose fat, build muscle, and keep off over 140 lbs!

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